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This seems to be a thing with women. I've dated several that have tried to "get back at me" for dating someone I know. This only works if the guy did something to screw up and she did this as "revenge." Revenge never works though. The best revenge is to not care and go live life.
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06-16-2021, 10:58 AM | #9045 | |
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I appreciate the offer. I'm going to hold my cards to my chest, at least for now. I honestly don't need advice; logically I know what I should do, but logic doesn't always dictate real-life action when matters of the heart are involved. I'm sure many can relate. |
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Im currently boo'd up and she has her own issues (not like a thing about her past, but baggage she carries with her because of it) and its annoying as all fuck. But sometimes that shit just hits too good, you know. So were kind of in that cycle where she throws an asinine fit, I just go dark, she comes back and makes up for it, rinse and repeat. I did get some separation and met up with a few only to quickly realize they were going to be carrying their own, but didnt have her upsides, so I let her back in. Thankfully its nothing really bad, its not like cops are getting called. I think dating at 40 is an odd place for a guy. In my shoes Im a valuable commodity, but youre either going young (which isnt really what I want) or youre trying to find someone your age who hasnt been burned so bad they are a mess. |
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06-16-2021, 01:22 PM | #9049 |
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I'm finding this to be very true as well. I'm guessing you get approached quite regularly. When it happens to me it's either a woman in her 20s or a woman in her mid to late 50s. Very rarely do I get approached by someone in what I would call my 'age bracket' (I'm 45). I definitely don't want someone older than me, but I'm warming up to the idea of being with someone in her 20s, provided we're a good match.
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For both the men AND women of the forum, if you've been burned make sure you take the time to get into therapy and deal with that situation before you even attempt another relationship. And yeah its pretty obvious what women are running into. They are cagey at first but then they find out you have a career, no baby mama and a home they open up quickly. Im sure the average dude my age who is still single is probably his own sort of mess. |
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BTW where in ATL are you? The local CCA meet is this Sunday morning at the Barnes & Noble in Alpharetta. Ever go out there? |
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Thanks everyone. I'm still in shock, and sadly still stuck in isolation in New Zealand waiting to get out and see my family.
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Maybe we can meet up at Bocado Burger (if it's still open) one day on my way back from Suches.
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So Georgia peeps can get together in a few posts, meanwhile the Louisiana members still haven't set a date/time/location....unless y'all had drinks without me!!!
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