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I basically gave my ex a month to figure out her own situation. But it also been basically saying I was done before I said I was finally done.
I didn't give up my bed though, it's 2021 it's time to move beyond that chivalry shit. She moved into one of my guest rooms but if I didn't have them she's either sleeping in the same bed on the other side or crashing with somebody else. |
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I am willing to help her out in any capacity I can. I don't want to throw her to the curb, but frankly I'm past a point where that won't change anything. The conversation is happening tonight. Her dad is in another country, and probably would prefer living with me over with mom. I think her college apartment's lease is starting soon/already started, though. Quote:
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I wanted to ask earlier but didn't want to ask at the same time. Thank you for being "that guy" for me Joe. Quite curious myself as how things went.
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06-25-2021, 01:06 PM | #9601 | |
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What I did, was still work with her. Gave her time to figure out an apartment, helped her move, made sure everything was squared away and that she was safe in her new arrangement. We hung out until she found someone new, then that was that. Do you have the ability to help her move? Sure you might have to take time off work, but it's a gesture that can at least not leave her out to dry. We're all people at the end of the day, and just because things don't work out, doesn't mean you can't support them while things get worked out. |
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I don't date, just keep a 5-10 person rotation and enjoy what's out there. Dating is useless now with all these online dating apps, to easy for people to cheat with so many options.
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Do you need a wing man?
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I walk in from work and the tension is in the air. Conversation starts off by her asking if I wanted to be with her. I said yes to hear what she had to say. I heard what I wasn't giving her as a boyfriend. I told on what I was expecting out of a girlfriend. There was a surprising amount of overlap. It went "south" when I asked her to describe what she loved about me and why she was trying to work things out still. It really hit me that I was not getting inspired to be and do better by her. I'm glad she was getting that out of me, but I wasn't. Went from there, really. Quote:
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It will be like that, there's no easy way of breaking things off when living together. Honestly one of the shittiest feelings I've ever had. However, the shitty feelings struggling through every other issue was no longer a key point of stress in life. Keep your head up, do what you can to be cordial and accommodating so you both can move on with your lives on a "positive" note. Good things come to those who put good out. |
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