Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[King Rudi]

Trouble is on the horizon. I gave her back her house key yesterday and she gave me back my garage door opener. Not good.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Trouble is on the horizon. I gave her back her house key yesterday and she gave me back my garage door opener. Not good.

Well that sucks! Hope you both find what you need though. And maybe that will be each other!

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Trouble is on the horizon. I gave her back her house key yesterday and she gave me back my garage door opener. Not good.

To quote Chris de Burgh from an old song: "...and the ferryman said, there is trouble ahead."

I cross my fingers for you that it would went all well as good as can be.

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Trouble is on the horizon. I gave her back her house key yesterday and she gave me back my garage door opener. Not good.

Certainly not the update I expected when coming in here. Very sorry to hear.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Well that sucks! Hope you both find what you need though. And maybe that will be each other!

Originally Posted by Dang3r

To quote Chris de Burgh from an old song: "...and the ferryman said, there is trouble ahead."

I cross my fingers for you that it would went all well as good as can be.

Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

Certainly not the update I expected when coming in here. Very sorry to hear.

Thank you gents. It certainly is not what I wanted, but I'm also of the mindset that if communication is broken, hope dwindles.

[upstatedoc]

Was this sudden?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Was this sudden?

Yes and no. Had some issues the latter part of last year but felt that we worked past it. It's as much my fault as it is hers. She can't communicate and I well, I don't feel like I need to explain my personality to anyone here. I'm actually a genuinely nice guy....but like everyone else, I have my limitations of what is acceptable.

[ragingpanda]

All I need is food, sex and silence. I guess I will stick with hookers for the time being as they are much cheaper than the average slut.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Sara

What a beautiful day in Florida

Jeez that sand looks like snow. I'm so jealous haha

[MKSixer]

It's been a while.

9 weeks. Couldn't be happier. No drama. No foolishness. We can't get enough of being around each other. I've been there 3 times and she has been here once. She is coming back here in 2 weeks. I'll ask if she would be ok with me posting a pic.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

All I need is food, sex and silence. I guess I will stick with hookers for the time being as they are much cheaper than the average slut.

I really don't understand how this works out. But then I guess I don't know the going rate for some happy time with a lady of the night...

[ryan stewart]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Jeez that sand looks like snow. I'm so jealous haha

Gotta be gulf coast. Basically from Destin east it just gets better and better probably peaking at Sarasota because Florida blocks most of the wind and waves, keeping everything soft and clean.

My home away from home, I really recommend it

[ryan stewart]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

I really don't understand how this works out. But then I guess I don't know the going rate for some happy time with a lady of the night...

From what Ive heard from people who have partaken is the ones you really want arent actually that much cheaper, just easier.

[ragingpanda]

Originally Posted by ryan stewart

From what Ive heard from people who have partaken is the ones you really want arent actually that much cheaper, just easier.

If it flies, floats or fucks, its much cheaper to rent.

Trust me.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Trouble is on the horizon. I gave her back her house key yesterday and she gave me back my garage door opener. Not good.

I thought you were past the storm, things had settle down.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

I really don't understand how this works out. But then I guess I don't know the going rate for some happy time with a lady of the night...

Originally Posted by ryan stewart

From what Ive heard from people who have partaken is the ones you really want arent actually that much cheaper, just easier.

The Emotional Support Lady of The Evening has a storied history in the annals of mankind. The longevity of the profession and its ability to seemlessly weave into so many environments and compliment a variety of professions while enhancing industry is quite remarkable.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by ryan stewart

Gotta be gulf coast. Basically from Destin east it just gets better and better probably peaking at Sarasota because Florida blocks most of the wind and waves, keeping everything soft and clean.

My home away from home, I really recommend it

I'm a huge fan of Destin. I've been going there since I was 17 and it just gets better and better.

[ryan stewart]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

If it flies, floats or fucks, its much cheaper to rent.

Trust me.

I guess. But since I tend to go after girls who have their own shit they tend to put their own skin in the game. AKA picking up meals, buying gifts, flights, etc. Despite even my protestations the current girl does what she can to try and stay 50/50. I could see if you're flashing cash at gold diggers or sugar babies.

Also the big expenses are, well, expected. Going on a trip, well, if you want a girlfriend for the trip you're still spending $3k on the trip and THEN paying for the girlfriend, whereas Im not paying that additional expense. So the math doesn't seem to add up. The only guys I know (who have admitted to) getting a call girl were the single ones who wanted some company on a trip like to vegas or the beach. If youre in a relationship and trips like that arent already fuck fests then youre in the wrong relationship.

Not that it would ever work for me, Im a low-level germaphobe so the whole argument is untenable to me.

[ryan stewart]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

I'm a huge fan of Destin. I've been going there since I was 17 and it just gets better and better.

Especially as you head a little east. That pic is Santa Rosa, almost halfway to PCB. Quiet, you can get a condo right on the water easy, never super busy and the water is regularly insanely clean.

It also doesnt hurt its such a simple drive from Atlanta taking a Friday or Monday off makes it a "why not?"

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by ryan stewart

Especially as you head a little east. That pic is Santa Rosa, almost halfway to PCB. Quiet, you can get a condo right on the water easy, never super busy and the water is regularly insanely clean.

It also doesnt hurt its such a simple drive from Atlanta taking a Friday or Monday off makes it a "why not?"

Absolutely. One of my best friends has a place in SR in one of the high-rises on the beach and it is the best. The GF has a place in Tampa right on the water, as well. Not that was an influence in dating her, at all. Nope. Not one bit.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

I thought you were past the storm, things had settle down.

We were and they were. We have both made great strides in our relationship. It isn't as if we discuss topics and then they get pushed aside. We both do our fair share of the responsibility of staying true to what we discussed and decided upon together. I feel there is a root cause of the issue. It isn't because the care for one another isn't there, but something mentally on her end keeps her guarded. We talked at length last night and I explained how difficult it is for a person to give 110% all while the other person stayed guarded. We still have much to discuss, before we reach an end decision that works for both of us. Whether we end up breaking up or becoming better partners, we both have to do what is best for our emotional and mental health first and foremost.

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

We were and they were. We have both made great strides in our relationship. It isn't as if we discuss topics and then they get pushed aside. We both do our fair share of the responsibility of staying true to what we discussed and decided upon together. I feel there is a root cause of the issue. It isn't because the care for one another isn't there, but something mentally on her end keeps her guarded. We talked at length last night and I explained how difficult it is for a person to give 110% all while the other person stayed guarded. We still have much to discuss, before we reach an end decision that works for both of us. Whether we end up breaking up or becoming better partners, we both have to do what is best for our emotional and mental health first and foremost.

I hear you.
Here in Germany the pandemic and lockdowns had brought few relationships and marriages to an end in-between some of our friends.
Onto one hand this shows me, that they had never really been so damn close together that they are be able to withstand the forced closeness.
On the flipside a further thesis would be, that some anger had grown hidden and the lockdowns had released them.

My personal opinion is, that getting into a relationship under the current situation is an advanced test for both of them. When you are never forced to live so close to another, you have to change you mind and skip maybe long enjoyed habits or you wouldnt make it.