Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

You wore the grey, didn't you???

I sure did. Sara has me viewing gray in an entirely different light. Lol! Gym chick already sent me a text. Let's see where this goes….

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I sure did. Sara has me viewing gray in an entirely different light. Lol! Gym chick already sent me a text. Let's see where this goes….

Men wearing grey sweats are like when mosquitos are attracted to that buzzer light thing. I just can't help but look and look for a long time! It's just the greatest gift. Thank you Lord for men in sweats.


Now with regards to the stair master stamina problem, use smelling salts!! They sell them on amazon. I've got two bottles. I usually go about 20 minutes on the stairs. In the beginning, I needed the help of the salts to get me through it. I'd want to quit less than 5 minutes in. I haven't used any in a long time, but when you just need the extra maximum boost, it never lets you down.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

Men wearing grey sweats are like when mosquitos are attracted to that buzzer light thing. I just can't help but look and look for a long time! It's just the greatest gift. Thank you Lord for men in sweats.


Now with regards to the stair master stamina problem, use smelling salts!! They sell them on amazon. I've got two bottles. I usually go about 20 minutes on the stairs. In the beginning, I need the help of the salts to get me through it. I'd want to quit less than 5 minutes in. I haven't used any in a long time, but when you just need the extra maximum boost, it never lets you down.

I usually push through for about 45 minutes [fasted] when I'm cutting and about 20 minutes when I'm not.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Tommy-G

I have never had a hot neighbor.

I've had several. The hot neighbor across the street when I moved into my last home, when I was still married, was problematic. She made it clear, several times, that she was game. I avoided her like the plague because..."ARE YOU INSANE, WOMAN?!?!!

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I have……plenty of times. I've hooked up with a few; one a hot Persian named Leila…….but fuck was she alllllll about money. I mean, allllllllllll about money. She even gave me this spiel about "affording her" when I dropped her off in Newport Beach one day after we had hung out. The kicker: I was her first and only black guy (…I tend to be a lot of women's "first black guy"), but I digress. She told me all I ever would/could be to her was "fun" since she couldn't ever bring me home to the parents regardless of how nice of a guy I am. She said her parents would only approve of a white male if she decided to date outside of her culture; apparently they see white men as a step up. So….I gave it to her, as much as I could. If she was going to relegate me to being solely a piece of meat, then so be it.


I had another neighbor who was pretty decent. I did roll the dice, but she turned out to be a little odd (…she was from Oregon) and she was flaky. I saw her boyfriend the other day and he looks like the lead singer of Seether…….only heavier. Interestingly enough she's a decently fit girl.

The neighbor I avoided the other night isn't hot, but she's decent as well. I am just not attracted to her sexually, so I ignore the subtle body language she tosses my way.

There is this blonde chick who lives in my condo complex that wears her hair in two long blonde braids and who has a smoking body. I want to ravish her so bad, but I only see her when she's hopping into her boyfriend's car. If I ever get close enough to spark conversation I'm going to give it a go.

This WAS me, as well!! I cannot tell you how many times I was the first. Not only that the first of anything in years. The funny thing was the fact that so many told me they didn't like sex before but after about 2 weeks they couldn't get enough to the point of wanting to do it anywhere at any time.

I'm a one woman man now. I pass the mantle fully to you.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

This WAS me, as well!! I cannot tell you how many times I was the first. Not only that the first of anything in years. The funny thing was the fact that so many told me they didn't like sex before but after about 2 weeks they couldn't get enough to the point of wanting to do it anywhere at any time.

I'm a one woman man now. I pass the mantle fully to you.

It sounds like you were holding it down for the dark browns……like a boss!!!

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

It sounds like you were holding it down for the dark browns……like a boss!!!

It took me 2 weeks to delete all the photos from my computer.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

It took me 2 weeks to delete all the photos from my computer.

I dread the day I have to fully clean out my computer and my phone. I'm going to cry bro. I have captured and received some impressive media during my adventures.

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

This only means that we can afford the nice neighborhoods sir. I'm the last house on the end of cul de sac. Before my neighbors across the street moved in, I was the youngest person on my street. Another positive on this is that my neighbors are quiet and leave me alone.

Agreed, I swear I could walk my dog nekkid at 930pm and no one would see me b/c they are all asleep.

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I have……plenty of times. I've hooked up with a few; one a hot Persian named Leila…….but fuck was she alllllll about money. I mean, allllllllllll about money. She even gave me this spiel about "affording her" when I dropped her off in Newport Beach one day after we had hung out. The kicker: I was her first and only black guy (…I tend to be a lot of women's "first black guy"), but I digress. She told me all I ever would/could be to her was "fun" since she couldn't ever bring me home to the parents regardless of how nice of a guy I am. She said her parents would only approve of a white male if she decided to date outside of her culture; apparently they see white men as a step up. So….I gave it to her, as much as I could. If she was going to relegate me to being solely a piece of meat, then so be it.

You know what, I know a very nice and cute vietnam girl, but we are just very loose friends and had never planned to make more of it. One evening we were out for a drink into a bar and as we sat onto the stools a slight drunk guy came up and made me a big compliment, how awesome my girlfriend looks. As I replied that she wasnt my GF, his mood instantly turned and he got kinda sassy and asked, if I would mind if he takes this asian hooker out for a quicky and let her return then.
He hadnt finished his last set as my fist hits his 12 and he got knocked down!
Man, the last thing I couldnt stand are respectless guys who think that they could disrespect any foreign ppl.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I dread the day I have to fully clean out my computer and my phone. I'm going to cry bro. I have captured and received some impressive media during my adventures.

It was a walk down memory lane...

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

You know what, I know a very nice and cute vietnam girl, but we are just very loose friends and had never planned to make more of it. One evening we were out for a drink into a bar and as we sat onto the stools a slight drunk guy came up and made me a big compliment, how awesome my girlfriend looks. As I replied that she wasnt my GF, his mood instantly turned and he got kinda sassy and asked, if I would mind if he takes this asian hooker out for a quicky and let her return then.
He hadnt finished his last set as my fist hits his 12 and he got knocked down!
Man, the last thing I couldnt stand are respectless guys who think that they could disrespect any foreign ppl.

There is no room for disrespect for sure. Good on you for standing up for her.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

It was a walk down memory lane...

I still make that walk often…… just as a reminder of all I've accomplished.

[Sara]

Thoughts on dating older women? If this has been brought up before, I apologize. I don't remember the answers, nor do I feel like searching.

How much older, if at all, would you date?

[Alfisti]

oh boy.

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by Sara

Thoughts on dating older women? If this has been brought up before, I apologize. I don't remember the answers, nor do I feel like searching.

How much older, if at all, would you date?

"If" I was single at 46 I would date 50, maybe up to 55.
If it was a night home after a bar only maybe 60. I hear the older ladies are lots of fun

I prefer younger and shorter though

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

Thoughts on dating older women? If this has been brought up before, I apologize. I don't remember the answers, nor do I feel like searching.

How much older, if at all, would you date?

I generally prefer older women. They tend to play less games, have learned how to communicate, are more nurturing and are less sexually inhibited. Granted, older could mean many things. Hottie lawyer just turned 50; professional dancer is 38. I don't like to date women significantly younger than I am because we'll have nothing in common outside of sex. I still get 18 year old's who wanna play because I punch well below my age bracket due to my physique and the fact I don't look 42.. It almost feels wrong!!!

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Sara

Thoughts on dating older women? If this has been brought up before, I apologize. I don't remember the answers, nor do I feel like searching.

How much older, if at all, would you date?

I'm 30, I'd probably date someone as old as 38. Mainly because I'm looking for something more serious and long term. If I was just having fun, probably 40s.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I generally prefer older women. They tend to play less games, have learned how to communicate, are more nurturing and are less sexually inhibited. Granted, older could mean many things. Hottie lawyer just turned 50; professional dancer is 38. I don't like to date women significantly younger than I am because we'll have nothing in common outside of sex.

Yeah I'm in that middle ground and it's weird. A lot of my friends are married, but women younger than me are still in college. I went on a date with a 23 year old not that long ago and even though she was attractive, I could tell after the first 5 minutes the conversation was not going anywhere. There was no substance, it was like talking to a rock.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Yeah I'm in that middle ground and it's weird. A lot of my friends are married, but women younger than me are still in college. I went on a date with a 23 year old not that long ago and even though she was attractive, I could tell after the first 5 minutes the conversation was not going anywhere. There was no substance, it was like talking to a rock.

Yeah, the chick I met in the gym today is in her early 20's and a sophomore in college. This will probably only be physical.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Yeah, the chick I met in the gym today is in her early 20's and a sophomore in college. This will probably only be physical.

Good luck man.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Good luck man.

She hasn't asked my age nor what I do for a living, and I won't even bring it up because I don't think she really cares anyway. She just wants to sample the product. Lol!

I may go running with her tonight. Yeah, well…..that may end up turning into more than a run.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

She hasn't asked my age nor what I do, and I won't even bring it up because I don't think she really cares anyway. She just wants to sample the product. Lol!

I may go running with her tonight. Yeah, well…..that may end up turning into more than a run.

"Running".