Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

Good lord lol

No, he came to me for the first date in New Orleans. During the first date while he was in New Orleans, he asked me to go to brunch where he lives, I felt pressured and said yes (I know I shouldn't have, but I did, oh well). So in the morning, I got up and drove to his house. Parked my car at his house. I dont know his area very well so he drove us to brunch in his car. We ate brunch. Sat outside for a few hours at the restaurant, I took my jacket off because it warmed up and got hot. Had it in my arms on the way back to his house so I could get in my car and go back home. I hope that makes better sense now.

and by you saying "Not to mention, why where you at the asshole's house again?" gives me the impression you thought I was there twice.

Suuuuure Sara.

The use of "again" was used in the sense of "additionally" at the end of the sentence. Not indicating that you had been there twice but asking as in the sense of "Again, why where you doing this?" Perhaps I should have asked my question in a different manner.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Suuuuure Sara.

The use of "again" was used in the sense of "additionally" at the end of the sentence. Not indicating that you had been there twice but asking as in the sense of "Again, why where you doing this?" Perhaps I should have asked my question in a different manner.

Y’all already knew we met up twice, I had previously stated that.

At any rate, I’m sending an Uber to pick it up and bring it to me. He’s being an ass now and I can’t be bothered with seeing him face to face again. All I asked for was my jacket back, very politely and he’s being a jerk.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

Y’all already knew we met up twice, I had previously stated that.

At any rate, I’m sending an Uber to pick it up and bring it to me. He’s being an ass now and I can’t be bothered with seeing him face to face again. All I asked for was my jacket back, very politely and he’s being a jerk.

Honestly, I didn't pay attention to the fact that you met up twice. I read, scan, make mental notes of what to comment on and move on. I offer advice on what I see that is important to others and the rest of my posts are basically to give people shit and see if they return said shit. It makes for fun banter. As to the details of your dates or love life, I don't really pay attention to. Not because I'm an asshole....I mean, I'm that too but case in point. The surgeon will be gone in 3 weeks.

Sending an uber to pick up a jacket that you left? I read this as paying someone to take care of an oversight on your end. No respect here. If I make a mistake, forget something, etc. I have to bite the bullet and do whatever necessary to make it right. Choices are: go get the jacket, buy a new one or forget it. He even offered to put it in the mail box so you didn't have to see him, but you can't be bothered to make the drive to get what you want so you pay someone to do it? We as men call these "bitch moves" when men do it. Not sure if women have names for stuff like this or not, I'm positive they do though.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Honestly, I didn't pay attention to the fact that you met up twice. I read, scan, make mental notes of what to comment on and move on. I offer advice on what I see that is important to others and the rest of my posts are basically to give people shit and see if they return said shit. It makes for fun banter. As to the details of your dates or love life, I don't really pay attention to. Not because I'm an asshole....I mean, I'm that too but case in point. The surgeon will be gone in 3 weeks.

Sending an uber to pick up a jacket that you left? I read this as paying someone to take care of an oversight on your end. No respect here. If I make a mistake, forget something, etc. I have to bite the bullet and do whatever necessary to make it right. Choices are: go get the jacket, buy a new one or forget it. He even offered to put it in the mail box so you didn't have to see him, but you can't be bothered to make the drive to get what you want so you pay someone to do it? We as men call these "bitch moves" when men do it. Not sure if women have names for stuff like this or not, I'm positive they do though.

I previously stated that I looked online to purchase another and I can’t find one. I don’t want it left the mailbox for a number of reasons, the mail person may not deliver his mail if a jacket is filling up the whole mail box, it might get stolen, it might get stained, etc.. I was trying to be considerate by asking him to leave it on his porch and he said he was going to throw it away.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

and no adipose tissue.

Anywhere.

None???

Are you SURE it was a woman??

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by Sara

I was trying to be considerate by asking him to leave it on his porch and he said he was going to throw it away.

I have to ask - How did you tell him you didn't want to see him again? Did you do something for him to justify saying he was going to throw it away?

Dick move on his part either way but it begs the question.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

I previously stated that I looked online to purchase another and I can’t find one. I don’t want it left the mailbox for a number of reasons, the mail person may not deliver his mail if a jacket is filling up the whole mail box, it might get stolen, it might get stained, etc.. I was trying to be considerate by asking him to leave it on his porch and he said he was going to throw it away.

Do you ever feel like maybe I'm just rustling your feathers? Just curious.

Why would he offer that he has your jacket, then act as if he wants to return it to you and then be a jerk after? That is a dick move.

I feel you on the clothing bit though. I once cut a man for scuffing my sneakers. Not really. I would though. The ex-wife managed to steal a vintage Lacoste cardigan from me when she left for the last time. Dirty bitch. Eight years together.....you mention her name and I think of adultery and my vintage cardigan that went with everything.

[rebekahb]

So many questions about a jacket:

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by rebekahb

So many questions about a jacket:

I'm just a curious kinda guy.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

I was born in the wrong decade. I have yet to drop my handkerchief but when I do, he better pay attention.



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Just make sure you remember to take your hanky home with you. Otherwise, you'll be calling uber.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

None???

Are you SURE it was a woman??

None. That I could see.

She had a baby at 21 and only gained 8 lbs. She is in fantastic shape. Ask Sara .

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

None. That I could see.

She had a baby at 21 and only gained 8 lbs. She is in fantastic shape. Ask Sara .

MK, my apologies good sir. My focus was Sara's jack-it this morning. Happy for you sir!

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

MK, my apologies good sir. My focus was Sara's jack-it this morning. Happy for you sir!

No apologies ever necessary, my friend! We still need to figure out a central location for a meet-up! We once did this on the M5 Board but the central location and event was a car launch in Spain. We don't need to go that far but it would be super awesome!!

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

None. That I could see.

She had a baby at 21 and only gained 8 lbs. She is in fantastic shape. Ask Sara .

Yeah, but how is YOUR cardio???




congrats, I think

[TiMSport]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I once cut a man for scuffing my sneakers.

Is King Rudi a thug? Lol.

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by TiMSport

Is King Rudi a thug? Lol.

Well, he IS a king after all....

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

Well, he IS a king after all....

And we ALL know that, "It's good to be the king!!"

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

Yeah, but how is YOUR cardio???




congrats, I think

Sufficient for the stair climbing, sir. That's as far as I will go!!

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by TiMSport

Is King Rudi a thug? Lol.

Sometimes snapping necks is the only way to be a king.

The comedy behind this is what I really look like. At 44, with a shaved head, glasses and below 140 pounds; I'm the most menacing, un-menacing looking guy you'll ever see.

Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

Well, he IS a king after all....

Hey now! I detect sarcasm! I actually didn't come up with King Rudi. I feel like calling yourself king is a bit conceited. I got named and avatar made by my homeboy Soul_Glo

Originally Posted by MKSixer

And we ALL know that, "It's good to be the king!!"

"Everything is so green!"

Originally Posted by MKSixer

No apologies ever necessary, my friend! We still need to figure out a central location for a meet-up! We once did this on the M5 Board but the central location and event was a car launch in Spain. We don't need to go that far but it would be super awesome!!

Agree 1000% I'm not too far from you. I'm in east TN, just a few hours away. We haven't set a date yet, but the girlfriend and I plan to go to Savannah, hopefully this summer, for some haunted tour goodness. When we finalize everything, I'll get at you.

[TiMSport]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

And we ALL know that, "It's good to be the king!!"

"You look like the piss boy!"

[TiMSport]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Sometimes snapping necks is the only way to be a king.

The comedy behind this is what I really look like. At 44, with a shaved head, glasses and below 140 pounds; I'm the most menacing, un-menacing looking guy you'll ever see.

Wut? No way! Below 140? Somehow I don't believe that, lol.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by TiMSport

Wut? No way! Below 140? Somehow I don't believe that, lol.

Last September, when I came off my cut and started my winter bulk; I weighed 132 pounds @ 8% body fat. Craziness. Two years ago when I started the gym/body transformation, I weighed 211. Never worked out a day in my life. The only sports I was in to prior, was skateboarding. I'm older, kids are grown, needed a new challenge. My dumb ass did everything backwards. I didn't want to be "all muscled up" I just didn't want to be fat anymore. Did little weight resistance training and did 1 hour to 1.5 hours of cardio 6 days a week. Seriously, we're talking 1.5 hours on an elliptical with the resistance set on about 3/4 of the max, 6 days roughly 1100 - 1300 k/cal burned per session - mind you my BMR is 1600. Made myself crazy catabolic and crazy skinny fat. Didn't realize it would be easier to build muscle, then lose the fat. I see too many fat muscular guys at the gym. Yes, they can lift big heavy weight, but they aren't in shape, they're just big. They're belly is as big as their arms, chest and shoulders. Didn't want to be bigger, wanted to be lean and cut. I started this cut cycle mid-February at 149 pounds. I'm trying to lose the fluff slowly, but damn it's hard. I've already lost 13 pounds. I'm at 136 as of this morning. The goal is to get to 146 - 150 at around 10-12% body fat. Getting there, just takes time and persistence. I was so lean in September the veins in my obliques and v-taper were very visible. I look skinny as shit until I take my shirt off. Once the fluff is gone, maybe about another month to 6 weeks, the striations in each muscle are very visible.