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[Aatish]

Pretty sure there are. Sunny Leone is an Indian pornstar turned Bollywood actress.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

As far as "bang bang skeet skeeting" goes; it's all the same. Haven't ran into problems with hair, so that's good.

lol
there IS a cultural difference, local HK girls r totally conservative, or at least less informed or willing to do things..
never tried one from mainland China buts thats an area of development

[Aatish]

The stereotype in India is that all Indian guys want to bang cream white blonde bimbos named Jenny, Mary, or Kate.

I find that one funny as I'm not fond of blondes.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

lol
there IS a cultural difference, local HK girls r totally conservative, or at least less informed or willing to do things..
never tried one from mainland China buts thats an area of development

Pretty sure if I was in India, near my village, it would be quite different

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

The stereotype in India is that all Indian guys want to bang cream white blonde bimbos named Jenny, Mary, or Kate.

I find that one funny as I'm not fond of blondes.

if u grew up around them, they are like potatoes..

funny, i never considered white girls either, but when it's a possibility, all women are women

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Pretty sure if I was in India, near my village, it would be quite different

did u watch the video? i don't understand if she already knows he's going to hit it and flee, she still goes through with it in the end? lol, women blaming men... and they still walk right into it? i really don't understand

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Pretty sure there are. Sunny Leone is an Indian pornstar turned Bollywood actress.

Doesn't look indian..
funny, chinese ppl don't look chinese in the US. in china everyone is paler.. guess its same in india

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

if u grew up around them, they are like potatoes..

funny, i never considered white girls either, but when it's a possibility, all women are women

I guess so.

Brunettes just seen more interesting. And I like contrast

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

did u watch the video? i don't understand if she already knows he's going to hit it and flee, she still goes through with it in the end? lol, women blaming men... and they still walk right into it? i really don't understand

I did. I want to say she knows it's a hit and run situation, but this doesn't seem like it's her first time...

Women walk into this stuff. Most guys are sleazes that take advantage of them. Both are at fault imo

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

Doesn't look indian..
funny, chinese ppl don't look chinese in the US. in china everyone is paler.. guess its same in india

Yup. She doesn't, but most actresses in Bollywood don't either.

I.e. Kareena Kapoor, ******ka Chopra, and my personal favorite Shadra Kapoor.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

I guess so.

Brunettes just seen more interesting. And I like contrast

my first crush was native american indian, and HS crush was brown hair, dark complexion
tastes can change with age i guess

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

I did. I want to say she knows it's a hit and run situation, but this doesn't seem like it's her first time...

Women walk into this stuff. Most guys are sleazes that take advantage of them. Both are at fault imo

It's like the guy not paying for anything actually INCREASES the chances of him getting laid, in a paradoxical way.
If u pay, the girl automatically puts u into "provider" category - not paying she puts u into "bad-boy" category

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

my first crush was native american indian, and HS crush was brown hair, dark complexion
tastes can change with age i guess

Always been a dark hair, mild to moderate tan guy

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

It's like the guy not paying for anything actually INCREASES the chances of him getting laid, in a paradoxical way.
If u pay, the girl automatically puts u into "provider" category - not paying she puts u into "bad-boy" category

Wouldn't say provider, that would involve a lot more interaction.

I always pay. Or at least make a good effort to. I've got dinero, I like having a good time.

I also always drive. With my last chick, I always took her to new places I'd find in Chicago. Typical date would involve at least 45 miles. I drive 25k a year, so it's no big deal for me but she always felt bad. Always offered gas money, which I declined.

Damn, why did I let her go...

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Yup. She doesn't, but most actresses in Bollywood don't either.

I.e. Kareena Kapoor, ******ka Chopra, and my personal favorite Shadra Kapoor.

safe to say ur primarily into indian girls?

"3rd" culture is hard sometimes because u can't relate to ppl from ur original country, the adopted country is a different set, so the best fits r with similar ppl as yourself.. but those tend to be the most picky and hardest to get!

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

safe to say ur primarily into indian girls?

"3rd" culture is hard sometimes because u can't relate to ppl from ur original country, the adopted country is a different set, so the best fits r with similar ppl as yourself.. but those tend to be the most picky and hardest to get!

Lol, I'm open to all. Indian girls are ok; yes hot but batshit crazy.

Especially the ones from wealthy families from India.

[Aatish]

Not paying is sleaze status. At Least, that's what I hear from my lady friends

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Wouldn't say provider, that would involve a lot more interaction.

I always pay. Or at least make a good effort to. I've got dinero, I like having a good time.

I also always drive. With my last chick, I always took her to new places I'd find in Chicago. Typical date would involve at least 45 miles. I drive 25k a year, so it's no big deal for me but she always felt bad. Always offered gas money, which I declined.

Damn, why did I let her go...

It depends if the chick also thinks the same way.. then there is an understanding, and everything works well
i used to pay for everything with exgf.. it was never an issue
i guess its with new chicks, if they come in with this vulture mentality (kinda like guys just trying to hit it) where they r either going to rob u, or u r going to seduce them if u have what it takes

i live in chicago for 3 yrs, college

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

It depends if the chick also thinks the same way.. then there is an understanding, and everything works well
i used to pay for everything with exgf.. it was never an issue
i guess its with new chicks, if they come in with this vulture mentality (kinda like guys just trying to hit it) where they r either going to rob u, or u r going to seduce them if u have what it takes

i live in chicago for 3 yrs, college

Really? Where? Which college?

I grew up in the burbs, but was always in the city.

After her, pretty much every girl has been a digger. As soon as they find out I've got some green, the mining operation starts.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Lol, I'm open to all. Indian girls are ok; yes hot but batshit crazy.

Especially the ones from wealthy families from India.

i guess since it's such a large country, there's no lack of choices.. is this right?
i mean HK only has 7million ppl and I don't think ill ever sift through, not to mention all those from china.. but there IS a culture gap, my putunghua is so crap, and the culture so different it's hard to find things to talk about
but then i guess its just individual differences, like some girls (from china) i can easily understand and conversation is natural, even if there is nothing to talk about.. yeah so i guess individual match is more important

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Really? Where? Which college?

I grew up in the burbs, but was always in the city.

After her, pretty much every girl has been a digger. As soon as they find out I've got some green, the mining operation starts.

south side.. ghetto

don't show it. but not like they will get any anyway.. so let it attract them, if you're a girl who wouldn't want looks, same for money for guys

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

i guess since it's such a large country, there's no lack of choices.. is this right?
i mean HK only has 7million ppl and I don't think ill ever sift through, not to mention all those from china.. but there IS a culture gap, my putunghua is so crap, and the culture so different it's hard to find things to talk about
but then i guess its just individual differences, like some girls (from china) i can easily understand and conversation is natural, even if there is nothing to talk about.. yeah so i guess individual match is more important

The problem with Indian from India culture is that it's selfish. People really don't think about other people. It's a giant pissing match, always trying to one up the other family.

Plus, indentured servants are still a thing there. Women don't lift a finger, and they expect things to be the same everywhere.

When I turned 18, I went to a wedding in India. Had people lined up to introduce girls to me. First chick I met told me outright that she doesn't clean, cook, drive, or work. Things didn't change dramatically with the others.

Shits eff'd