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One thing I've learned while dating is that you can never have expectations on what you think should be "normal". I've had to reach out to women to go on dates, and then theres others that reached out to me consistently, but I prefer a balance. I wouldn't consider it a bad thing by any means, but I do tend to read between the lines. If I find myself making all the moves to go out with someone, I'll usually tell them I'm not feeling it and be on my way. I don't really care for things to be one sided, I have my own life to live, I don't need to schedule things all the time.
The dates may go well, but look at it down the road. It's probably likely he may be like that with other things in life, which would be frustrating for me. Some people don't mind, but I do.
Dating sucks. It's cool getting out and meeting people, but it's really kind of scary how many different nuances there are that people exhibit that I couldn't live with. In the moment, it's fun, but in the long run, not so much.
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