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Originally Posted by King Rudi
Being a parent is tiring all the way around sir. Mine are 20 and 21. I wished that someone had told me before kids that (most) marriages don't last and that kids give not a single shit about the hell you go through, as a parent, to feed, clothe, educate and instill good morals. I love my boys more than life itself, but amazes me at how they care not for the sacrifices made for them...no matter how great or how insignificant.
In reality, wrap your arms around those little shits and enjoy every second you can with them. The next 15-18 years is going to fly by. Then you'll still be tired......and wish they were the size they are now. Each age comes with it's own challenges. Something else no one ever told me, being a parent is more of the kids teaching you to be a parent that you teaching your kids a damn thing. Enjoy the ride, it will be bumpy....but also very rewarding.
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Well said, 30, 29 and 26. You do the best you can and hope for the best. They will disappoint you, make you crazy and exhaust you. The word thank you or some recognition for the sacrifice is rare or non-existent. I'm not sure if the sacrifices are for them or for us, but you do it and except it. I love my kids but sometimes what to take them outside for a parking lot conversation.
I think I'll give my mother a call today and thank her for what she did for me.
Peace out Dads.