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Originally Posted by ASAP
So... real weird scenario here if anyone can chime in-
Went on 5 dates with a girl, both had a great time... even both parties confirmed it.
I always paid for everything... Saw her Saturday... hung out until late and again both confirmed a good time... i noticed however that I hadn't heard anything from her for a few days after... seemed weird considering we saw each other 5 times and she always wanted to hang out again.
Today I text her a little more seriously... and simply say what is this between us because i find it odd I haven't heard anything from you... the response i get is you're a great guy and i've had a great time and you deserve honesty but I can't commit...
LOL WTF...
You mean, you couldn't tell me this the 2nd time or even after the 1st? But whenever I wanted to see you, you did too and I made my intentions clear from the get go... you suddenly realize this?
Alright... some give me thoughts here-
Was she looking to just have a good time?
Dating others? (this is my thought... again apps give to many options so this is my thought)
Completely confused?
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she is having great time because you are dishing out $$.
she is free loader and using you.
has she contacted you/message you first???