If you can't do the time, don't do the crime ?
No one is ever forced into getting married, maybe it is expected, maybe we are drawn to have a lifelong mate.
I know a couple who the husband hasn't had sex or any kind of intimacy for nigh on 10 years and counting. That is one very rough relationship, married with 1 kid.
I think there are times in both men and women's lives that sex can and does stop, but it should be an understanding that it is temporary and other aspects of the relationship, such as intimacy doesn't stop.
Men who suffer from ED are in the same and probably worse boat that a woman with PMS, both bring up barriers in intimacy. SEX and inimacy are 2 different things, you can stop sex in a marriage with no major issues as long as the intimacy doesn't.
Also part of being in a marriage you are supposed to sacrifice and understand that whilst you may not need sex or intimacy and your partner may wait a while, you should discuss what you can both have or do.
"Not too night" is always fine, "wait till next month" may be on the edge but "wait till christmas" is a big NO
Any partner who does not look after there partners sexual needs, "UNLESS" there are physical pain or hinderances, OR offer alternatives is just asking for trouble.
I said it jokingly, but ther are plenty of bitches and bastards out there looking and more than happy to take care of your man or lady. If that happens then you have ONLY your self to blame.
there are 2 bible quotes
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband...
Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control" (1 Cor 7:3, 5).
"The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife" (1 Cor 7:4).
Even Jesus knew that if you deny your partner for long enough that is NOT a good thing
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Originally Posted by c1pher
Many men also deal with post menopausal wives while their libido is still strong. No one seems to talk about that though and expect men to become celibate. If you decide to have extra marital sex, you’re the devil. Married for better or worse, correct?
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