Congrats on the new car. You are going to love it.
Tints:
Thornhill Tints (Richard)
346 Newkirk Road
Richmond Hill, ON L4C 0A9
(905) 780-8468
or
Detailing Shop
200 Mulock Dr, Newmarket, ON L3Y 9B6
(905) 853-3113
or
FX Auto Tint & Accessories Ltd
11 Heritage Road, Markham, ON L3P 1M3
(905) 471-7555
iPod
Get Cross Ave Auto in Oakville or RMP 427/Steels to install the iPod adapter.
Angle Eyes
Not into lighting so I can't help you there. I think all you need is brighter bulbs. Talk to these guys, they know what they are doing when it comes to BMW lighting:
E92 Lighting.com
No idea about where to get chrome trim except the dealer. You are thinking of switching out black trim for chrome? If yes you can probably easily find someone with chrome to do a direct swap with you.
Wheels are way too subjective for me to make suggestions. The M6 OEM or knock offs are very popular. So are OEM 21" Style 128's off the 7 series, or knock off versions in 20".